Friday, September 21, 2012

{ 3rd Dates - Chris & Courtney }

 

I have a really strong connection with Courtney - I always have and from day day I met her I could definitely see potential. As a disclaimer, now that everyone is able to watch our 3rd date video it has come out that I kept in really close touch with Courtney after our dates. I even went to visit her in her home town of Arizona because I have been feeling so strongly for this girl.

I chose a Real Salt Lake soccer game for our date because major league soccer is my absolute favorite thing in the entire world and I wanted to share it with Courtney. Going into the game I had really high hopes and expectations especially since we have always had such a strong connection and I have always seen Courtney, as well as Danielle and especially Sharla, at the end of all of this dating.

So I was a little surprised that things were a little bit awkward during the game. I think it's my fault because I was so nervous. This is the last date before I have to decide who I will choose to be my girlfriend and hopefully more after that and I want to make sure the feelings are real on both sides. At the end of the date I decided not to take the awkward as a sign that things aren't right between me and Courtney and I am going to still give some serious thought about whether or not to choose her at the end of this journey. I really think we have eternal potential and I need to take the next several days to make sure I am making the right decision if I pick Courtney, try to convince Sharla to give me another chance or choose a stronger friendship with Danielle that may lead into something much deeper with more time.  I really don't know what to do.

7 comments:

Bre said...

uh oh, do I see an Ashley repeat where he ends up with no one?

schetsclan said...

I don't think he has find the right match either. Nice people just not the right connection. No one seemed smitten.

Molly Campbell said...

Sounds like she's saying she plans on telling him she doesn't really like him?

efletchey said...

Choose Kirsty! She's my favorite!

Deveny said...

Not sure Courtney is feeling like this is The One. Hopefully Chris chases after Sharla....

Fancy Nancy ;-) said...

Seems to me… they are both a bit nervous about the uncertainty of things. If anyone asked me what one suggestion I would give, I would say, spend MORE time--lots of time--building a solid friendship. Great things stand stronger on a solid foundation and I believe that the best really does start with friendship.

You'll see ;)

mariachimike said...

It is fitting that the video frame is frozen at a point where Courtney is giving Chris that priceless look.